i am not sure kids were put on this lovely planet to bring us joy as in a bundle of joy. i truely feel they are here to remind us how we were when we were kids. to be disobedient and spiteful at times and friendly and funny and loving at others. the kicker is that the time between the moods is about 2 seconds.
i can only take pleasure in knowing that one day they will have kids of their own and payback is hell!
tms out.